Thursday, April 19th, 2012

Nine of Cups β€” Renaissance Tarot

Artist: Helen Jones

Author: Jane Lyle

 

A delightful person whom I do not know suggested that when I don’t know what to write, I look at others’ blogs for inspiration. So I read her blog today and paraphrase a sentence and steal a few words. Such are the wiles of the writer.

 

In spite of my β€œbest efforts,” [none] I’m not able to write a blog nearly as often as I like [every day], given that I have to simultaneously nurse a baby and bounce her up and down [okay not simultaneously] when I’m not nursing her and attempt to nap when she’s attempting to nap andβ€” waitβ€” I just stay home all day. Sigh. Actually, I have very little to do. I stare at my baby. I tell people who are visiting me [bless them!] to do things for me. Mow the lawn! Cook me dinner! Wash the dishes!

 

I draw the Nine of Cups. Enjoy yourself! [It will only get more difficult.]

 

Sometimes I sit here and stare at my baby and think, β€œthis is exactly what I’ve always wanted.” The thing is, I never thought about wanting this, exactly. It’s contentment and satisfaction and happiness that I’ve always wanted, tho I haven’t always known it. These things come in many forms. In my experience, goal-oriented happiness-seeking does not lead to the same level of contentment as acceptance-of-life happiness-seeking.

 

A friend I met while planting trees in Alaska has a Chinese (?) tattoo on her shoulder. When I was twenty-two, I asked what it meant. She saidβ€” β€œIt means, enjoy life.” Then, with habitual honesty, she edited herselfβ€” β€œActually, it means enjoy yourself, but I tell people it means enjoy life because I don’t want them to take it the wrong way.”

 

I thought, β€œWhat is the difference between enjoy life and enjoy yourself?” I prefer enjoy yourself. It is somehow both more immediate and more permanent.

 

Ten years later, working in Hawaii, I met a native man who’d grown up on Ni’ihau. He had the most pleasant temperament, tho he said when he was younger, he was quick to anger. He loved to tell tales and I loved to listen. Whenever it was time for me to goβ€” for it was never time for him to goβ€” he blessed me with the words, β€œEnjoy yourself.” I thought of the friend I’d met in Alaska when I was younger. I thought how wise these people are, these people who enjoy themselves.

 

Enjoy yourself!

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